

Love,

::I realised that life never plays fair to its player::
We went for movie @ Alamanda Putra Jaya during the Valentine’s eve. All 11 of us. It was pretty funny because Valentine’s is not applied on us. More like single guys’ day out (Don’t get us wrong. We are all straight!!) We watched Percy Jackson: The lightening Thief and to be honest, the movie didn’t get to my expectation. Sad-sad. On the other hand, Valentine’s movie is not bad. Even though the rating is not that high, but I love the movie. Ahahaa.
The next day, my friend’s parents took us to their business partner house somewhere around Serdang. In this trip, I realized something important. Behind every success man, there’s always a good wife. Respect and loving are the big words in the family. Thank you, auntie and uncle for the wonderful lunch. You guys will be the first to know if I found the so called “calon”. Or auntie carikan je la…. Hahaha.
I also managed to meet Sean during my last day at KL. Like usual, he came with his BMW 3series which could really make other people jealous. It was fun hang out with someone who is like our mentor. He gave good advices too especially in relationship. My friend has been taking his advice which to focus in his career instead of wasting his energy on someone who doesn’t appreciate him. His new tagline “When you have cash, all girls come crash on you”. Nice huh..hehe..
I had a wonderful journey and thanks for being there for me when I needed you all the most. Thanks for taking good care of me. Thanks for all my friends who came out for lunch or dinner during my time @ KL. See you soon… :)
Where this Lambo came from
This cost 10bux!!
Some random demo
New crocs ;)
Nice place to chill
too big for noel
Seri Kembangan
Two is better than one
This song has been playing over and over again in my head... I couldn't say more...enjoy~
I wish someone out there could understand how I feel. I need to get out of this tiny room a.s.a.p…..It suffocates me…It’s killling “me” internally..
So whatever happens I’ve decided to go for begpacking during the semester break..with or without u….I’m just tired with all the excuses…
I hope along the way I’ll be able to sort things out, to calm myself down and to see life from different perspective…
For now, I wish I could scream my lungs out…….
Best Regards,
Boys like Girls: Two is better than one
Aquarius Qualities and Characteristics
Your zodiac sign is symbolized by the bearer of the jug of water, you provide the spiritual and intellectual health drink to the society and people around you. And the water has a tendency to flow ahead, so that you are forward looking, and optimistic, and think only in terms of growing inward and outward possession.
You dispense knowledge, advice and even material possessions to those around you, who solicit your help and emotional support. You are the sign of brilliance and creativity, but these are not without the sufferings and sacrifices. You have distinctive, in fact a peculiar character – you are knowledgeable and intelligent yet hesitant to take important decisions or to give your opinion where it counts most. You are quite philanthropist, at least in thought, and have a great sense of humor.
You are tolerant and don’t mind others poking fun at you. You are valuable to the world as you are a giver rather than a taker, you give hope and inspiration. Aquarians are amiable, charming and intuitive, but can get eccentric and unruly at times. They are also slow and shaky starters, taking their own time, but half way through, they might change their mind, irritating those with them. In your love life, you will have really good experiences, but some setback will keep piercing your heart at all times.
Qualities that make you lucky are honesty, truthfulness, innovative, and insightful. Qualities that hinder your success are inconsistency, unusual, rebellious, and cautious.
Aquarius Personality
Aquarians are probably the most individualistic and strong kind of people. Now you can read that as pigheaded and rebellious, but that’s your wish (that’s not to say that being either of these is always a wrong thing). And as is the way of the world, the distinctive and strong in character are the ones followed by one and all; so this is what leaders are made of. Now things are not all rosy and jolly for Aquarians. If I had to describe an Aquarian in the least possible number of words, I won’t classify him as a leader or pioneer, I’d call him a walking bag of contradictions – coz that’s what he most definitely is. They do pioneering work, they go against the tide and try to change how the society thinks about something, yet they themselves find it very hard to change their mind on something once they have made up a notion.
So this difficulty in modifying oneself and one’s beliefs becomes more and more noticeable and prominent with maturity; an Aquarian might need a lot of help and encouragement in coming up to prevalent times and practices. However, another important thing that makes them such good leaders is their cool temperament and emotional control – you could not find a person better at taking affirmative action in practically testing circumstances. Also, these guys are really understanding and do not find it very difficult to suffer contravenes of fellows. That is why they make such good friends.
Another enigmatic aspect of their persona is their glamorous yet distant kind of vibe in relationships. They like their freedom and are not very welcoming to change, at least in this department. So, an Aquarian might face a lot many conflicts in his love life, even though he/she might be a terribly romantic person. Aquarian children may seem to be a little too introvert and aloof of the world, but that’s normal, in fact, that’s their thing! Physically, Aquarians may often suffer from circulation-related health issues, so it is really important for them to keep warm in cold weather
Aquarius in Love and romance
With the glamour and shine you have got, it will not be very difficult for Aquarians to turn strangers into acquaintances and acquaintances into something more. A lot of love and love-making will come your way if you are an Aquarian and you will get the opportunity to enjoy it to the fullest. And my advice to you in this matter would be to grab those opportunities and make use of them to the fullest without any second thoughts, because once you start having those second thoughts and actually sitting down and thinking them through, hard times are bound to come by. Each courtship or relationship ultimately comes to that one question, but in case of you, this relationship is a little too critical.
As I have already said, an Aquarian is really protective of his freedom and way of life. A serious relationship will mean taking that giant leap of giving up one’s normal life for someone else, and learning to make decisions with the ‘we perspective’ instead of the ‘I’. Such a huge commitment will take a huge amount of love and devotion. So most of the time, this scenario just leads to a break up. But still, if the relationship persists, then the partner will have to understand the emotional needs of the Aquarian and mend his/her life and needs accordingly. This is quite difficult even for an Aquarian (remember we talked about Aquarians being very understanding and supportive) – we are talking about partners making peace with the fact that they will never be able to play a part in their companion’s life as big as they’d like to.
So the partner requires to be understanding and cool-minded and one with interests that the Aquarian can identify with. The ground truth is that for a relationship to work, having common interests and aspirations is just as important as understand one’s companion. As for the Aquarian, he/she has got a penchant for theatricals, and a great talent at entertaining the companion and making the occasion a very special one for him/her. This will make your love life very colorful and fulfilling
Aquarius Career and Money
The individuality I keep saying the Aquarians try to protect in personal and professional spheres is not for nothing; actually it reflects a very lovely trait of theirs. They are known for their distinctive mark – the originality and difference they bring about to their work. These people first make sure they know what is expected from them in any task before actually taking up that task. Then they go about their work in a distinctive way. It’s not that they have no respect for the rules; they just wanna do things their way, without any intervention. So the superiors need to stay away from their area and not worry about the quality of output, because it will be assuredly top notch. They are very reliable and will give each task their most, unless you stick your head in and tell them it’s not the way to do it.
Generally speaking, Aquarians are not too involved in petty organizational politics and quarrels. If they are ill-treated, they rise above personal battle and try to resolve issues with their flair and ability. If they have a promotion or increment coming their way, they accept it with poise and the confidence that they can take up the added responsibility. So whatever might be a situation, they have the ability of not get distracted and go about their work in a simple and straightforward fashion. To add to this, they have a great amount of resilience. They can practically work all day. The only thing is that they will prefer taking a coffee break or doing nothing at all in stead of doing something that they consider to be a waste of time, a petty formality.
All these qualities make Aquarians stand out in a crowd – their dedication, their concentration, and above all their different and sometimes peculiar way of working. These things come very naturally to them, so they get noticed by superiors without actually realizing it.
Aquarius in Marriage
Aquarians are the most faithful and devoted of all in a marriage, except for the fact that they might have a few problems in accepting the new sort of life that the marriage will have to offer. Aquarians are not at all possessive and in no consider their spouse to be an object to be owned. So they are cool with any sort of jealousy-related issues. This is because they have a great amount of respect and adoration for their loved ones, and respect their values, emotions and moral standards eve tough they might not approve of them.
Aquarians find it hard to give up their individuality in the marriage. They find it hard to let of their identity for a greater cause. For example, when the Aquarian wife becomes a mother, she might find it hard to give up her profession and career and get involved in tending the kids for the first few years, without any bitterness. Even if she accepts to do it, she might just be waiting for the child to become old enough to go to school so that she can rebuild her career. Not that this is a bad thing, but the thing is that parenting is not something that can be done with a feeling of obligation. This is not so much of an issue of the Aquarian husband turning into a father, because fathers do not so much have to end their careers for tending the baby. But he actually might be the odd one to step up and take the responsibility of tending the child in order to give his wife the opportunity to continue.
Aquarians probably make the best parents, it sort of comes to them naturally, at least some aspects of it. They do not find it difficult in any way to stimulate and create interest in their children and stir them to be involved in some sort of group activity. The home will be a place of really interesting conversation, and not just noises from the TV or the Videogame. But the stagnant set of beliefs that Aquarians possess can prove to be a serious setback. It might be really difficult for the parents to acknowledge the generation gap and act sensibly.
(Courtesy from http://www.ask-oracle.com/aquarius/
Regards
From the national issue, lets move on to a smaller topic. What do you think of “Favouristism”? It is defined as “the unfair favouring of one person or group at the expense of another”. From the definition itself, it shows how negative this word is. Do you still give favor on “favouritism”? I realize that life is unfair and never will. That’s why before you can walk; you have to learn how to crawl. Climbing life’s leather is never easy. Along the way, you will find hiccups and you will go through all the thick and thin of life. Some time in the future you will find this “people” who give upper hand on others not because of their capability or hardwork but because of different gender, sex favor, money and other benefits that you might think impossible. So don’t be surprised. What I dislike about this people is they supposed to be professional, but they don’t act like one. So sad.
For the past couple weeks, I’m still unable to finish two things ;) The Book and The Korean Drama. Hehe. Well, I’m still reading the “Conversation with fat girl”. The Author is Liza Palmer. It is a good book but it takes me some time to finish it because I’ve so many things to catch up. So my only reading time is basically before I go to sleep. Hehe.
Currently I’m still watching the “The man who can’t get married”. This Korean drama is like the other kind of it, so damn funny. It’s mainly about the marriage problem for people who has passed their prime time (You know, the age they supposed to get married). But what is so hilarious about this drama is because of the actor. Check out the actor. He really knows how to live in that character. I still remember how he was teasing her friend (soon to fall in love with), a lady in late 30s but still unable to find a partner. He who has the same problem shamelessly teased the lady. One line that catches me is “people always treat marriage is their ultimate goal in life, but it’s not”. So what’s your opinion about this? I believe every person has their own thoughts. But make sure to elucidate what your wants and needs ;)
3) Oil and Gas
Well, one of reason I love this job is due to the high pays. Who doesn’t like money? $$$! Apart from the financial aspect, this job also provides you with the offshore experience. You got to travel from time to time! Recently I just submitted a resume to the potential Oil and Gas Company. Hopefully my luck is there.
SO GUYS, WHATEVER YOU DREAM JOB IS, TRY, TRY HARDER AND KEEP TRYING TO MAKE IT REAL. LIFE IS SHORT. GO FOR IT NOW. THE FUTURE IS PROMISE TO NO ONE.
2.My new born nephew. Ian Noel was born on 25 Nov 2009.
3. Knowing a bunch of new friends at GEMS TBR03.
4. Enrolled in MSc programme as USM.
There were also some peculiar incidents which hard to be explain here. So I guess I will just keep it for myself ;) Thank you for the great 2009. Basically we all had been through thick and thin throughout the year. Along the way, we found ups and downs but still the most important thing is being happy for who you are.
For the 2010, I hope I can improve and replenish more qualities on me:
1. I’ll try to finish my MSc in 1 and a half year.
2. Get a good job.
3. Try to pursue my other ambition. Pilot!!
4. New love? ;)
5. Last but not least..get more money,money and money!!
So lets welcome 2010!!
"For last year's words belong to last year's language. And next year's words await another voice. And to make an end is to make a beginning."-T.S. Eliot-
Regards,